“Making new friends could make you a stronger leader, healthier individual, and actually help raise your income”

How quickly do you make new friends? Have you ever watched kids at the playground? Little Miguel ( my three year old son) and the family went to the Boston Children’s Museum recently with hundreds of other [...]]]> Fast Friends

“Making new friends could make you a stronger leader, healthier individual, and actually help raise your income”

How quickly do you make new friends? Have you ever watched kids at the playground? Little Miguel ( my three year old son) and the family went to the Boston Children’s Museum recently with hundreds of other children. Miguel’s favorite game this time was the little basketball hoops. Most of the kids were older, taller and more experienced, but that did not stop Little Miguel from getting in there and shooting some hoops. The big kids were happy to see a little boy so into basketball and making some hoops too. By the time it was time to leave Little Miguel was giving high fives out left and right, like he had known the other kids for years. The big lesson: making friends can be a simple yet powerful trait to make friends quickly and to stretch yourself everyday to be outgoing and open to the opportunity. The Framington Heart Study has found that when your friends are happy, it actually makes you a happier person. It has also been said that your average income is in direct an average of the five friends that you regularly hang out with, interesting thought yes? Do you know how to help a sick fish? The answer is often to change the water. The principle here is sometimes we need to change the water (friends) in our lives to help us reach our next level of greatness. If you decide to change the water in your life, it can open up room for a new friend or two. When was the last time you made a new friend? How was it and how did you become friends? Making new friends could make you a stronger leader, healthier individual, and actually help raise your income. Never forget that you are never too old to make new friends!

Learn how a search powered by passion can make all the difference! By Mark McCurdy

Passion as described in the Webster dictionary says: PASSION: A strong liking or desire for or devoted to some activity

When you build your job search or career search around the mission or position you are most [...]]]> Can passion really help accelerate your nonprofit career?

Learn how a search powered by passion can make all the difference!
By Mark McCurdy

Passion as described in the Webster dictionary says:
PASSION: A strong liking or desire for or devoted to some activity

When you build your job search or career search around the mission or position you are most passionate about, you ensure a strong foundation on which to build your search. When you begin your search with passion at the core you also build emotional IQ and physical confidence. A cause you are passionate about draws from your values and spirit to help change the future. If you are passionate about the environment or stopping gun violence you probably have very strong feelings about the cause due to a past positive or negative experience. You may love the environment because you have wonderful memories of time spent with family and friends in the great outdoors, or maybe a volunteer experience with the Boy Scouts or Girl Scouts. If you have a deep passion to stop gun violence, chances are you or a loved one has experience in this field. Both examples give you great past experience and first-hand knowledge on which to build your job or career search which comes from a deep passion that is unique in a different way than your job skills are.

Could this be you? A client of mine we will call “Stan”, is very passionate about ending gun violence and educating youth and young adults about it.  He unfortunately has had first-hand experience with gun violence growing up and has sadly lost friends who were victims of gun violence.

The emotional strategy for Stan to build his job search around this mission is actually a powerful mindset and can be an advantage throughout his job or career search. When the question comes up as to why he is passionate about the mission of stopping gun violence it is crystal clear how much he cares. The power behind his strategy is deeply rooted in past experiences and the turmoil of personal loss making it a natural fit. That fact that he is taking personal control of the loss and is taking positive actions to solve the greater problem of gun violence is another confidence booster. The fact that Stan has an emotional commitment to the mission helps build honest repoire with the interviewer and improves the chances that Stan will be called back for a second interview
The physical difference in his demeanor and body language when Stan talks about the topic of gun violence is easy to recognize.  Stan’s true inner self is revealed and his energy becomes almost contagious when we talk more about this issue that he is passionate about.   When passion becomes a daily part of your job search, or even your career, you tend to have an increased depth of self-determination and creativity. There are bound to be challenges that arise day-to-day, but when Stan focuses on the mission that is most important to him, the organization gains an employee that has a deeper level of commitment to the cause than someone who does not have personal experience with gun violence.

Now some of you may be thinking, I don’t exactly have one mission that is most important to me, but I do love computers (or hiking, or car repair, for example). So how can this passion work for me in the non-profit world? You can still use your deep passion for your trade as a catalyst for making a difference. Often times, your trade has been or is your hobby. For example if you love working on computers and you work as the IT professional or as part of a larger IT team then you can use your passion for computers to lead your search in the nonprofit sector.  However, it is still imperative to know something about the sector and organizations in which you are applying. For example, if a close family friend has used assistance at the local food pantry in the past and you learned how helpful and supportive the food pantry was to your friend, you may offer your IT services to the food pantry.

You may start by volunteering your time and expertise.  Other organizations may be looking to hire an IT professional, but again, it is imperative that you understand the work and mission of an organization, its management and work style, and how you might fit into their culture.   On the other side, if you are applying for work at a museum but you know nothing about the museum and have no feelings about the arts, then you will most likely feel out of place in this environment.  Please refer to my past blog article on career transitions for more information on cultural fit.

Whether your passion is deep seated in the organization or in your enthusiasm for the cause, the emotional and physical advantage that comes from building your job search from the foundation of passion stacks up well against the competition from others applicants.  The competition is less likely to have the same level of passion as Stan does when it comes to gun violence. Stan’s newfound knowledge that his passion is actually a major advantage against the competition builds confidence and accelerates his job search.  Your job search will be stronger when powered by passion!

The structure of mentorships varies widely: Mentorships can be formal or informal, of a short, fixed duration or open-ended. Mentorship could simply be a casual arrangement—monthly lunches or a phone call every few months—initiated by an individual in a new position who occasionally seeks out a more experienced colleague’s [...]]]> 1. Find and develop a mentor relationship.

The structure of mentorships varies widely: Mentorships can be formal or informal, of a short, fixed duration or open-ended. Mentorship could simply be a casual arrangement—monthly lunches or a phone call every few months—initiated by an individual in a new position who occasionally seeks out a more experienced colleague’s advice on a particular strategy or project. Can’t find a mentor…hire a career coach to accelerate your next career move?

2. Become like a laser beam and focus your energy on a mission that you are passionate about.

An expert as defined by Merriam Webster is: having, involving, or displaying special skill or knowledge derived from training or experience. You need to decide and then focus your energy to grain training and experience. It will be more fun to research, learn, network, and attend trainings in an area that you get really excited about. You may find that developing your expertise in a particular area actually produces career leads searching you out because of your deep knowledge.

3. Conduct a needs assessment on the strategic community you want to serve.

Once you have focused your energy on a particular mission you can research more deeply. What do you need to learn or do to add high value to the community or organization? When you deeply research and learn what are some of the big challenges facing a particular community you begin to build your credibility and expertise in that sector.

3 Ineffective Non-Profit Words for Your Resume

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